It's true that women are easily manipulated. It's also true that men are easily manipulated.

Avoiding Manipulation

The only way to ensure that you are no one is manipulated is to be completely honest from the start. It is impossible to manipulate someone who is honest about what they want from a relationship and with themselves. This goes for both men and women.

When you are honest with yourself, all games anyone can try to play are easily exposed.

People Who Manipulate

There are three kinds of people who manipulate women.

• Men who are simply desperate and / or lack confidence.
• Men who fail to respect women as people, mostly misogynists.
• Men who are manipulators by their base nature.

There is no acceptable excuse to manipulate a woman, even if it is in your base nature.

Stupid Man Mind Tricks

Guys who have to use stupid mind tricks are beta at best, reasons given in each section.

I'm Bored

Bored With a Woman

In an attempt to get more 'action' out of a woman a man will pretend to be bored with her (read:not pleased with her). The key here is pretend to be bored. This is manipulation. If you want a woman to do something, be a real man and tell her. She will respect your honesty are more than likely be turned on by it.

Think about this for a second, if you're using a stupid trick to make a woman feel not good enough for you, what's that say about you? Heh : That you are with a woman not good enough for you. If you were really that good, wouldn't you be with someone who is great for you?

When you do this, you are undermining a woman's self-esteem and giving them baggage that other guys have to deal with. What goes around, comes around.

Bored With Everything

Sometimes a man will pretend to be bored with everything and thus 'unimpressed' and thus 'better than it all'. This is pretense. Why would any man stick around in a place where he's bored? Alphas live interesting lives by their very nature — even in places and situations where these guys pretend to be bored. :)

Guys, if you don't get this, just remember : This is the same pretense that Paris Hilton uses.¹

Waiting

Some guys make a girl wait. They will wait to return phone calls, answer emails, etc, to give the idea that he isn't that interested in a woman and a busy, in-demand guy. This is pretense. Call a woman when you want. If she's sent you an email and you want to respond, email her back. Faking alpha just isn't honest. Alphas do what they want, not create the pretense they are busy and in-demand. By doing what you want, you'll find yourself at least busy, if not in-demand.

That said, women do like wait. It shows that a man has a life of his own and isn't desperate or needy. If you fake it, it means nothing. You are still a loser.

Related Pages

• Control Freak
• Guilt Trip
• Honesty
• Relationship

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