Honesty

Women dig honesty in a big way, but not in the way men usually think they do.

Being a nice guy and telling a woman what you think she wants to hear is not being honest with yourself or her.

Women want a man who knows what he wants and has the confidence to tell her without worrying about what she thinks. For example, say you want to bend your girlfriend over a table and fuck her brains out. To bend your girlfriend over a table just tell her you want to, exactly like this :

  • "I'd love to bend you over that table and fuck your brains out."1

For this reason, all women love the word fuck, used as a verb.2

Saying this lets her know :

  • You are dominant, therefore she can be submissive.
  • You are confident.3
  • You think she is sexy and therefore she feels sexy.4
  • You want her and therefore she feels wanted.5

When you are honest with a woman in this way she knows that she can trust you, which also means :

  • Your praise, compliments, and constructive criticism is 'sincere'.
  • Your decisions will be based on what you think is right. (remember dom/sub here).
  • You're not screwing with her head. You really want to fuck her.6

The Fly

The above works in long-term or already established sexual relationships. Just walking over to any woman and telling her that you want to bend her over will most likely get you slapped.7

In situations not in the said relationships, blatant honesty is attractive. Just tell a woman what you think. Be honest. Be yourself.

One of the many examples that show balls is telling a guy his fly is down. This impresses women because most guys are not confident enough to deal with that social situation. An alpha male doesn't think anything about it. He just does it, hell, the guys fly is down, he should probably know that. A non-alpha doesn't and thinks : I don't want to point out a guys crotch! He might think I'm gay!

It's very amusing to watch a girl giggle, blush, and look at you in a fun, impressed way while shifting her eyes from you to said guys crotch over such a simple thing.

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